The Keys to your Success

Your dreams are your own. Nobody else has YOUR specific goals and dreams.

YOU hold the key to your own success in manifesting your dreams and goals.

How do you DO that? (DO is an action word)

1- ACKNOWLEDGE your goals and dreams

2- Allow them free reign in your heart, soul, brain, subconscious AND Conscious thoughts

3- Write down your goals and dreams and post them all over (your work area, living space, car etc)

4- DO 15-30 minutes of personal development EVERY DAY (tapes, cds, books, meditation, affirmations

5- Remember that your dreams belong to YOU and only you. Be Audacious, bold and daring and be prepared to step OUT of your comfort zone to move forward every day towards your dreams and goals.

6- BE single minded and FOCUSED on your dreams and goals; do not let any one dissuade you or tarnish your dream. COVET YOUR DREAMS and KNOW that they are already yours. It is your job to attract them to you.

Remember that it is the Journey that counts and once you attain your goals and dreams you will give birth to another and another. PAY ATTENTION to the little things that occur daily. THEY are the stuff that dreams are made of :-)

7- Practice The Slight Edge. Take baby steps, every single day.

Contact me for a free Slight Edge Chart and be sure and read The Slight Edge by Jeff Olson.

Remember, whatever you want to be you ALREADY ARE.

Look inside yourself and BELIEVE.

When you take action you invite the Universe to orchestrate things, people and events that will bring your dreams and goals to you. BE KIND TO YOURSELF and others; BE a Compassionate Marketer.

Practicing Abundance, Prosperity & Kindness EVERY DAY,

RS

RandiSusan Mallory
Compassionate Marketing
512.472.2604 Country Code 001
SKYPE: rsmallory

Getting from Here to There

Before you can BE successful, you must know where it is you want to go, what steps you will have to take to get there and what is standing in your way.


Where You Want to Go

Setting a goal sounds easy, but it is not. In order for your goal to become attainable you must define it with great clarity and detail.

1- Write down you basic concept and then keep reworking it until it is EXACTLY what you want to attain.

2- Use your original notes and then write down your Goal IN DETAIL.

3- Describe, using all of your six senses what your life will be like and look like, when you attain your goal. What will it smell, FEEL, taste, look, like? What sounds will you hear? What does your Intuition (your Sixth Sense) TELL you, MAKE YOU FEEL like?

4- Speak your Goal into existence on a daily basis by creating affirmations and statements that describe your life as if you have already attained your goal (s). Repetition and emotion are the magic elixir that will initiate The Laws of Intention and Attraction to your doorstep!

5- Hold Faith that the Universe will arrange people, places, and situations to happen that will help you achieve your goal. BE ALERT and willing to take advantage of these situations when they occur. There are NO coincidences in life; situations are either opportunities (for those that ACT on them), or opportunities lost.

The Steps you will have to take to get there

1- Make a commitment to yourself
2- Learn the Skills that will be needed
3- Find and USE the TOOLS to help you
4- Take ACTION on a daily basis
5- Don’t quit; be there two years from now. Rome was not built in a day :-)

Practice The Slight Edge theory which states that you must take baby steps each day to get where you want to go.

Thomas Edison found 978 ways NOT to construct a Light Bulb, but the 979th way was THE RIGHT to do it! If Mr. Edison quit before he got to the 979th way, Civilization would be “living in the dark” without electric light bulbs! He stated with great delight and pride that he had found 978 ways NOT to make a lightbulb, and by the way, many of those 978 ways NOT to make a lightbulb produced many other great inventions!

What is standing in your way?

1- Do not let anyone Rent Space in Your Brain! It’s valuable territory! We all have those “little voices” in our mind that tell us we cannot do this or that. Perhaps it’s your Auntie or your Dad. YOU can do whatever you set your mind to accomplish; the voices only have control over you IF you let them control you so

2- Clear your brain and BELIEVE in yourself. Free yourself from self doubt by reclaiming your mind; it’s valuable territory and YOU and you alone control it!

3- Start a Daily Personal Growth program. Read a good book, listen to CD’s, watch a DVD that will keep you motivated, keep you moving forward and believing in yourself. Read at least 15-30 minutes in the morning and then again before you go to bed each night. Remember, your mind works on the LAST thing you feed it at night, so be sure to give it something enriching to work on (instead of watching the news on television)

4- Write down affirmations and review them (with emotion) on a daily basis to keep yourself moving forward and motivated.

5- Learn to BELIEVE in yourself and your abilities. If you have learned the proper skills, have clear, decisive goals and learn to TRUST in yourself then you will invoke the Laws of Intention and Attraction and they will be your constant companions on your Journey towards Success.

6- Remember that once you attain your Goal that you must create a NEW goal and begin once again! There is nothing better in life than to KNOW that we each have the ability create and achieve. We must always remember that it is the JOURNEY that is important and we must covet and enjoy each new path that we embark on!

7- Always be sure to Believe in yourself and practice “THE KNOW”. The Know is simply your ability, deep down inside you to realize that you are worthy and deserving and that by taking the correct steps, invoking The Laws of Intention and Attraction you WILL attain your goals. Belief is the KEY ingredient in your success!



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How to Turn your (Success) Dreams in to Reality

"Success comes to those who BELIEVE in the beauty of their dreams."
(Eleanor Roosevelt)

Network Marketing is a profession (un) like any other.
It requires a specific set of skills, determination, perseverance
and the ability to dream. More importantly it requires you to
BELIEVE in the beauty of your dreams. Doing so turns your
dreams in to REALITY, one step at a time.

Network Marketing is a journey, NOT unlike the journey of your life. We have a choice to live EACH DAY as if there is no other (there isn't).

Allow your yesterdays to die and keep the truth of your dreams (vision) in front of you. TODAY is the only day that you should celebrate and LIVE to it's fullest extent :-)

BELIEVE in the beauty of your dreams. Doing so turns your dreams in to REALITY, one step at a time.

Network Marketing is Self Development, not unlike the journey of your life. Celebrate YOU each day by reading a good self development book 30 minutes a day. You deserve it.

Gone with the Wind is NOT a good self development book (unless you are Scarlett O'Hara and finally, at the END of your life, lament all the days past that you could have been growing)

Danielle Steele and Joan Collins' books are NOT self development books.They are reverie that KEEP YOU in a place out of time, LOSING TODAY and your opportunity to GROW.

Allow your yesterdays to die and keep the truth of your dreams (vision)in front of you. TODAY is the only day that you should celebrate and LIVE to it's fullest extent :-)

What to read?

Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill

Acres of Diamonds by Dr. Russell Conwell

As a Man Thinketh by James Allen

TNT the Power Withing You by Claude Bristol

Science of Getting Rich by Wallace D Wattles

Big Al Tells All by Tom "Big Al" Schreiter


These Classics will help you build a strong foundation for your
daily growth as you keep the truth of your dreams (vision) in front of you.

BE a Compassionate Marketer:

Watch your thoughts; they become words.

Watch your words; They become actions.

Watch your actions; they become habits.

Watch your habits; they become character.

Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.

Remember, "Success comes to those who BELIEVE in the beauty
of their dreams."

BE a Compassionate Marketer

GROW!

BELIEVE!

Do me a favor and let me know if this article impacts your life :-)
I will send you one of the books (above) as a "Gratitude Gift" for your comment. Send your contact information to GratitudeGift@CompassionateMarketing.com along with the Title of the ebook you prefer and I will send it to you right away :-)

Practicing Abundance, Prosperity & Kindness EVERY DAY,

RS
RandiSusan Mallory
Compassionate Marketing
512.472.2604 Country Code 001
SKYPE: rsmallory
BE a Mentor with A Servant's Heart

Starting Your Week Right :-)

Start the week right! Each day provides us with the opportunity to FOCUS and TAKE ACTION, and doing so will, accumulatively, help bring us closer to our goals! We all have a desire to achieve some level of success. Have you THOUGHT ABOUT what level YOU are reaching for?

For some the desire is greater than the averageperson. Let's face it, everyone wants to be successful but very few are really willingto pay that price of W.E.I.T. (What Ever It Takes) Success is an attitude. It is a posture that you take that states, "I deserve to have it all."

Success is attainable to all, yet so few achieve it.

Success is a habit and has no real secrets.It all starts with your belief system. Your belief system starts with how you feel about yourself.

Your own personal self-esteem is the key ingredient to so much of your success. You must first adopt a personal positive self-image of yourself. In networking your product is always going to be "YOU" and your second productis people. You are really marketing your confidence. That is why a positive self-image is so important, especially in your first conversation with your prospects.(You never get a second chance to make a first impression.) Forgiving yourself, others in your past, past mistakes & failures are paramount in your early journey to success. If you are, or have not been able to do this, then perhaps you Need a 30 Day Mental Cleanse. Join our Community and "wash awaythe Ghosties" and find out WHO and BECOME the real and wonderful YOU! There is No Charge to Join our Community or to participate in the 30 Day MentalCleanse! For questions regarding the Mental Cleanse, feel free to email me Cleanse@RSMallory.com

The Law of Attraction is alive and well!!

A key point to remember here is that you attract to your reality who and whatyou are. When you are positive and feel good about you, you attract like-mindedindividuals. The same holds true if you are negative in your thought processes.Your thought processes will always determine your bank account of love. It isessential that you learn to forgive, let go, and let go of your past. Many peopledrag their past into their present, which stops them from ever having a clearvision of their future. Success is a process, not a payoff. You will pay your ten dollars at the door on your journey to success, and you will find out fast that there are no shortcuts. You will never be able to completely master every detail of your life. Attemptingto do so will only lead to frustration. What will make the most difference thoughis becoming the master of a few key principles that will allow you to have the fastest personal growth. To accomplish this task you will begin to think exponentially rather than incrementally.(THINK BIG - ACT BIG) You must have uncommon thoughts to have uncommonresults and a steady consistent plan of action.

What I have found in my twelve years of entrepreneurship is that very few people have a plan of action. "When you fail to plan, you are planning to fail." By "Plan of Action", what I am talking about is your goals down on paper wherethey are visible and you can get your hands on them to monitor your progress. You also have to have a very precise clear mental picture of where you are going on your journey to success.

Make your goals reachable and realistic, yet big enough that you have to stretch to reach them. Along with goal setting, I recommend that you have a daily plan of action (Method of Operation) in place that you work from daily. If you are part time, have down on paper exactly what you will do in the hours you commit to your enterprise. If you are full time do the same. Don't over-promise to yourself. Put down on paper exactly what it is that you will do in the time you devote toyour business. This will allow you to hold yourself accountable. Every night before you go to bed look over your daily method of operation and ask yourself how accountable you were to yourself today. Be consistent Practice The Slight Edge; baby steps each and every day. Consistent effort over a period of time over and over coupled with personal growth will create consistent results.

Our Business is not a numbers game or even "selling", rather, it is RELATIONSHIP BUILDING! No matter what business or enterprises in networking you are in, the most important aspect will be how well you can build relationships with people andmake them feel that you genuinely CARE about THEM…. NO AGENDA. In today's society, people are starved for recognition, caring and kindness. Give THAT to your Prospect and you will achieve more success than you know whatto do with, AND, your life will be enriched 100 fold! This process of success will happen when you take consistent action, let go of yourpast, feel good about you and continually work on your internal communication.

Make a commitment to YOURSELF as you continue your journey in to success in 2007!If you are SERIOUS about building your business, you will tap in to special tools available to you. Join or create your own MasterMind Group with other like-minded entrepreneurs. Napoleon Hill has many books that speak about MasterMind Groupsand their POWER. THINK AND GROW RICH is the Basic Primer on MasterMind Groups. If you have NOT read it, do yourself a favor and your business will GROW.***YOU DESERVE TO HAVE IT ALL! ***

Contact RS for your Complimentary Coaching Session and information on how to participate in a Weekly Global MasterMind

Practicing Abundance, Prosperity & Kindness EVERY DAY,

RS
RandiSusan Mallory
Compassionate Marketing
512.472.2604 Country Code 001
SKYPE: rsmallory
BE a Mentor with A Servant's Heart

The Secret to Building and Maintaining Instant Relationships

My number one rule is Practice Abundance, Prosperity and KINDNESS, every day!

When I chat with a prospect or someone I meet on the street, I always LISTEN toWHAT and HOW they are expressing themselves. When you are prepared to LISTEN you find out much more about folks than they might reveal to you than if you keep on interrupting them. Why is that? People are frazzled and have hecticlives. They no longer have or develop communication skills and yet they are STARVED for a kind word, or for someone to just let them "chat away".

The SECRET is in the LISTENING.

Let the person know that you have HEARD them by repeating a simple phrase back to them, or changing the words around a bit. LISTENING is a lost art, and those of us who develop the TALENT for LISTENING are richly rewarded with developing many relationships. Compassionate Marketers have a truly remarkable advantage. YOUR team mates should be a closely knit family; one that is CARING and CONSIDERATE of people and their lives. People are searching for and yearning to live better, longer and more fruitful lives.

Are YOU listening?

Yes, people are frazzled and have hectic lives. Since most people no longer have developed communication skills they become STARVED for a kind word AND they are starved for someone caring enough to show them how they & their families might lead more healthful and rich lives. Pay attention! LISTENING and CARING will avail YOU the opportunity to create a bond with someone new, it gives you the blessing of being able to help them, simply by LISTENING.

It has been said that being able to develop relationships will put you on the road to success in ANY business. Listening and CARING about the other person are the seeds that will initiate and maintain those relationships, whether personal or business.

Start listening with a CARING ear, and you will be amazed at how your life suddenly overflows with people who want to BE WITH YOU or BE INVOLVED WITH YOUR BUSINESS.

Make sure that you Practice Abundance, Prosperity and kindness, EVERY DAY!

Communication skills are so very important, and most people do not take the time to develop or learn about communicating with others. The biggest part of communications IS listening, or Watching, or Feeling, but not with your ears or eyes, but with your heart!

TIPS: If you are physically with someone, then always Shake their hand firmly (but not hard) and say something like, "It is very nice to meet you" and be SURE to use their first name! ALWAYS look them straight in the eyes and put a big SMILE on your face. People always react positively to a smile. Always start a generic conversation with the person; perhaps about their family, pet or other subject—then LISTEN to them intently to get the cues you will need to know WHAT they WANT in their lives, what is MISSING in their lives, and how you MIGHT BEST HELP THEM achieve their goals. If you LISTEN carefully, all these things will be revealed.

Maintaining mini relationships is easy to do. Keep a file of your conversations, details such as family members, Life Cycle Events such as Birthdays, Graduations and Anniversaries, etc. and send a little NOTE or CARD to mark the occasion. THANK YOU notes are a must; it is a lost art and people will remember you for taking a moment to honor them. When I send out Thank You notes, I always include a packet or two of one of my products to let them know that I wish them health AND prosperity!

You might include a sample of your product or a coupon for your sevices With every contact you make, and ALWAYS refer back to something they related or mentioned to you in the last conversation. This ONE ACTION is worth its weight in Gold and signals that you CARE ABOUT and actually LISTEN to the person with whom you are speaking. Here is an example of how this works: Perhaps this person has Arthritisin their hands. I might ask them how their hands are feeling today. This might even be a perfect opportunity to ask if they "would like to do something about" the pain in their hands. I learned this simple and effective question from "Big Al" Tom Schreiter. Here's the best part; when they say "yes" it is an invitation to let them know about a a product that might help them.

If you are not physically with someone and calling them on the telephone or perhaps conversing on the computer, you may still open up a generic but thoughtful conversation. Again, LISTEN to what the other person is SHARING with you. They are handing you the keys to your success if you are listening with your heart. One more thing; Practice Abundance, Prosperity & Kindness EVERY DAY and you life will be blessed one thousand fold!

RS Mallory
Compassionate Marketing
512.472.2604 Country Code 001
Skype/Oovoo: RSMallory

Why Compassionate Marketing?

Because I have been an Educator, Corporate Executive and Network Marketer it was a natural step to develop Compassionate Marketing. I presently Coach, Mentor & Teach people how to BECOME a better more effective person so that they might pursue their own financial goals and dreams successfully AND TEACH OTHERS how to do the same thing through Compassionate Marketing. Teaching little kids was fun; teaching Big kids (adults) how to BE little kids is even more fun. If you do NOT have Joi du Vie (Joy) in your life, if you do NOT have Laughter in your life, if you are struggling to no end, then you will appreciate and value the lessons you will learn with Compassionate Marketing :-) BE more and you BECOME more.

Do you practice "The Slight Edge"?

Are you "10 feet tall and Bulletproof"?

Are you a "deliberate creator" ??

If the answer to any of those questions is NO, then I would love to speak with you to help you attain YOUR goals and dreams. There in NO CHARGE andI have NO Agenda. I will help you with your present company/endeavor. You may also download my free gift,

Success in 10 Steps

Practicing Abundance, Prosperity & Kindness, EVERY DAY

RS Mallory
Compassionate Marketing
512.472.2604 Country Code 001
SKYPE: rsmallory

BE a Mentor with a Servant's Heart