Wednesday, June 10, 2009

Conviction, Committment and Believing in yourself 1000%



I recently read my friend Richard Brookes' article, The Light House in The Network Marketing Magazine and was struck by the simplicity and power of the message.

Are you committed, really committed to your endeavor? Read Richards' article and then take a personal measure of YOUR conviction (and commitment).

You know, we have to believe in what we are doing, and how we are doing it, so deeply that we are at total peace with our choices. Our success depends on, and is directly related to the reason people are "at home" or "not at home" in their chosen company. If you have a deep abiding CONVICTION and COMMITMENT, then your success will follow.

Your 1000% conviction and committment means that you are unwaivering..... NOTHING will steal your focus or get in your way of your goals.

The Laws of Intention, Attraction and Reciprocity are hardwired to YOU and activated by how you FEEL about your endeavor; how you feel about your decisions, your Passions, your "raison d etre (your motivation or your WHY). When you are deeply committed and focused, these 3 sister Laws Take Action on your behalf to aid you on your journey towards Success.

When you select a company to represent, make sure that YOUR passion(s) are reflected in their products, philosophy and business practices. Remaining true to yourself, your values and your Integrity is an imperative. Integrity is sometimes only a whisper, but if you are able to LISTEN and FEEL her inside of you then your choices will be the right ones for you!

Make sure that, like Richards' Light House, you are implacable and can give your focus, attention and conviction to the journey you are embarking on. Remember, your ability to believe in yourself AND the company empowers you to stay the course and maintain the Journey towards your Success.


May your day be a treasure bringing Increase and Plenty to your door.

Practicing Abundance, Prosperity & Kindness EVERY DAY,

RS
RandiSusan Mallory
Compassionate Marketing
512.472.2604 Country Code 001
SKYPE or Oovoo: rsmallory



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Thursday, June 4, 2009

Synchronicity vs Coincidence








Did you know that there is NO such thing as coincidence?

Websters defines coincidence as "a striking occurrence of two or more events at one time apparently by mere chance".

In our study of of The Universal Laws of Intention, Attraction, and Reciprocity we know that there ARE NO such activities or meetings of coincidence. Rather, they are synchronistic..... they are circumstances (opportunities) that are given to us by The Universe. We are able to exercise our fee choice to either ACCEPT or discard these opportunities as we wish.

Because I work at home, I go to the local coffee house several times a week armed with my laptop and cell phone. Incredibly, there are more than a few "local denizen" who are also working at home who call the local coffee house "office away from home" just like me. We have become an informal local networking group, referring each other to those who drop in once in a great while, sharing information, knowledge and resources.

It is not coincidence that brought us all together. Our (personal) energies interacted synchronistically to create a strong bond between us. When you are "transmitting" your energy through The Universe, it is picked up by, and attracts other like minded people.
Synchronicity is at work with her cousin, The Law of Attraction.

This day blessed me with an introduction to an interesting gentleman who came to the coffee house to wait for a client. We sat adjacent to each other and a conversation ensued. It is really easy to start a conversation if you want to. If you are observant and open to the energy around you, you will understand there is no such thing as coincidence!

This gentleman was working on his laptop and he was referring to his Daily Planner which he had placed on a shared table. I remarked on his use of such a seemingly "outdated" tool in this day of electronics and we discovered that he is a speaker/trainer (like me) and, teaches and helps people publish their books**. We discovered that we work in a similar arena and immediately discovered that we enjoy travelling, teaching and have a shared background. Since I am working on my first book, I recognised that The Universe was gifting me with a very special resource that I might tap into in the near future.


Coincidence or Synchronicity?


Those of us who walk in tune with The Universe understand the difference! Meeting this lovely fellow was a Gift from The Universe. If I had NOT started a conversation, the Opportunity to get to know someone with whom I might network with would be lost! The knowledge that he may impart to me would be lost. Synchronicity is always working, we just have to acknowledge her and Participate by Taking Action!


Are you letting synchronicity work for you?


May your day be a treasure bringing Increase and Plenty to your door.

Practicing Abundance, Prosperity & Kindness EVERY DAY,

RS
RandiSusan Mallory
Compassionate Marketing
512.472.2604 Country Code 001
SKYPE or Oovoo: rsmallory

**If you need help publishing your book feel free to contact Thom Singer (and be sure and mention this blog!)

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Monday, May 18, 2009

Expanding your Perception


Is the glass REALLY half full or is it really half empty?

I remember my Dad asking me this questions when I was a child. I thought it was a "magic" question and labored to come up with the correct response!

What about you?


This is really an age old philosophical question that was used to measure a child's deductive or inductive reasoning skills. It also measures a persons' PERCEPTION!

Deductive Reasoning allows us to grasp (and SEE) the WHOLE picture and then to understand and break down and pick out the bits and pieces that make it up. Those who can solve a Geometry theorem are good at Deductive Reasoning. Deductive Reasoning works backwards like a jigsaw puzzle or a Crossword puzzle. Both puzzles give you the big picture and ask you to figure out the details.

Inductive Reasoning allows us to have a bunch of details and be able to KNOW (and SEE) what the result will be if we construct them in a particular way. In other words, we are able to reason with some detailed facts given to us and then come up with a concept or principal. Inductive Reasoning works forwards.

Let's get back to that glass we are looking at. It is filled half-way with liquid. Is it half full.... or half empty? All reasoning aside, the answer depends on your Perception. MY perception is that the glass is 100% full; one half liquid and one half air!

Here's how I figured that:

My Inductive Reasoning tells me that there is a glass, there is liquid and there is air in the part of the glass that does NOT have any liquid, therefore the glass is 100% full. I added up all the details to come to my conclusion, using my Perception.

My Deductive Reasoning tells that I am looking at a glass which is filled with 1/2 liquid, but that the liquid has displaced something, and that something is air. So, if one part of the glass is now filled with liquid, the other part must be filled with the substance that was replaced by the water :-) Alas, the glass is 100% full!

Perception is a tricky thing, my friend. We are programmed to use it the way other people want us to think. Nurture your own perception and make sure that you are always using it with expectation, intuition and an open mind! Acknowledge your perception, hone your skill in using it and be sure that you learn to trust what you see. Learn and understand the differences between Inductive and Deductive Reasoning and incorporate BOTH skills in to your perception.

Any circumstance or situation in life creates the opportunity to use your perception to determine HOW you will take action towards that opportunity. Every situation is an opportunity IF we perceive is as one. So each time the Universe provides an opportunity, remember that you can CHOOSE to look on it positively, or negatively and choose to see YOUR GLASS as 100% full!

May your day be a treasure bringing Increase and Plenty to your door.

Practicing Abundance, Prosperity & Kindness EVERY DAY,


RS
RandiSusan Mallory
Compassionate Marketing
512.472.2604 Country Code 001
SKYPE or Oovoo: rsmallory
Twitter: RandiSusan

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Sunday, May 10, 2009

Mothers Day isn't just for Mothers


Mother's Day is here. For many of us that means spending countless hours in the kitchen preparing for the family gathering. Others are preparing the long trek to a family reunion, and yet others are home alone, their children long gone or far away in different cities, states, even countries :-)

My gift to you is that we each spend several moments in reverie thinking back to those wonderful days when our children joined our family as a blessing. Gentlemen & Fathers, this exercize is for you too :-)

For many of us, the day also affords us the opportunity to celebrate the lives and journey of our ""surrogate children, grandchildren, mothers, aunts and special friends who have gifted us with their special love and affection!

Close your eyes and conjure up an image of your beautiful infant in your arms, feel the tender, soft as rose petals skin, and experience a whiff of that delicious "scent of "baby" that seems to naturally leave once our children started to walk :-) I have a mental image of my newborn sleeping on the stomach of my (then) husband, who had a look of wonder and joy on his face. It is one of the only memories I have where he was in repose, serene, and not playing "macho man". It is a delicous memory and one that I cherish!

Here is a secret we should all cherish.

Whatever your circumstance today, we, as Mothers (and Fathers) know that each and every memory of our children is embedded in our minds, body and soul, and nobody can take them from us. These memories LIVE in us, and all we need to do to bring them into our present is to spend a moment in reverie and conjure them up!

This Mother's Day, give YOURSELF the gift of love. Pour yourself a cuppa tea or coffee. Enjoy the aroma, contemplate and admire a lovely flower, listen to your favorite melody and take a few moments for yourself. In this spiritual repose, reach into yourself and your memory banks and treat yourself to luscious memories.

Remember your child's' first cooing and gurgles, words, steps, bicycle ride, disappointment, success, first love, graduation, date, marriage? Remember that Soccer Game? The Softball or Basekt Ball game? Life is about GIVING and we have journeyed on a path ripe with joy, laughter, sadness and love.

Happy Mother's Day! Celebrate the loving memories with that someone special in your life by getting in touch with them and letting them know that you are thinking about them and that you care about them :-)

To all my friends who are Mothers, and Fathers raising their children & nurturing them too, congratulations on a job well done. You have poured your love, values, ethics and knowledge into your children. You have opened your heart, and then opened the door knowing that each of your children must walk through it and continue on their own path, knowing that you have encouraged them with love and faith, that all you have instilled in them will serve to make them a stellar and compassionate being, just like you!

Happy Mothers Day to everyone, and especially to those who have cared enough to embrace me and wrap me in love throughout the journey of my life! I have truly been blessed. Thank you to my son Paul, who has given me years of memories that live on in my mind, heart and soul. Your twinkling eyes, sharp wit and all those "belly laughs" live in my minds eye and ears, and ocassionally sneak out to make me chuckle and realize what a blessing and gift raising a child really is.


May your day be a treasure bringing Increase and Plenty to your door.

Practicing Abundance, Prosperity & Kindness EVERY DAY,


RS
RandiSusan Mallory
Compassionate Marketing
512.472.2604 Country Code 001
SKYPE or Oovoo: rsmallory
Twitter: RandiSusan



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Saturday, May 9, 2009

Does the Universe have Ears?

Humans do,


animals do,


reptiles do,


fish do


even plants and trees have a mechanism to "hear"what is going on around them.



Does the Universe have Ears?

The answer is a resounding Y E S and depending on how "enlightened" or "open" you are will determine your belief & understanding of the answer.

I grew up in the 50's and 60's when we spoke, first in whispers, and then with stretching vocal chords, that we were living "in the Age of Aquarius". That is, that we were awakening, growing, becoming enlightened and KNEW that the Universe would respond to us if we were OPEN TO the idea of the Universe and BELIEVED in its power.

Oddly enough, believing in the Universe is not a "new age" idea. There have been civilizations that embraced the power of the Universe throughout the ages. You may have heard their names whispered throughout history as they were


Kings & Queens

Magicians and Wizards (Merlin)

Warriors

Witches

Heretics

and those "Odd" men and women who were a bit "off"


There has been a noticeable and calculable interest in the Universe and her powers since the turn of the Century, leaving the more pragmatic folks behind in favor of those who have been seekers of the truth (old hippies, boomers, & those who sought/seek the knowledge of the ages & the like).

By the way, we Baby Boomers of the 60's now realize, after decades of seeking knowledge, growth and empowerment, that the Age of Aquarius was NOT in our formative years, and has yet to come. We are living in the preamble of The Great Age of Aquarius and the energy is all around us. The secret is that you must be AWARE that there is a great power whose significance is that IT EMPOWERS YOU if you are open to it and CHOOSE TO EMBRACE IT and LEARN how to use it!

The Universe hears everything we put out there.

Since it does not judge right or wrong, positive or negative, it works to give you what you say or ask for thus we must learn the proper vocabulary to speak and THINK, as both are very powerful communication tools to access the Universe.

Be careful what you wish for, THINK and be careful of the words that you use.

The Universe is listening and cannot tell the difference between a joke, or a positive or negative thought! The Universe GIVES YOU what you ask for so make sure you know how to ask... so make sure that you are not putting out negative statements or thoughts.


May your day be a treasure bringing Increase and Plenty to your door.

Practicing Abundance, Prosperity & Kindness EVERY DAY,

RS
RandiSusan Mallory
Compassionate Marketing
512.472.2604 Country Code 001
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KYPE or Oovoo: rsmallory
http://twitter.com/RandiSusan



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Monday, April 20, 2009

Social Media, Brains & Common Sense




Spam comes in a can. The ingredients are the dregs of mysterious animal parts, presented as a one size fits all solution to hunger. Of course, we have "Spam Addicts" who love the taste of Spam. Just ask the thousands who show up each year at the Spamara in Austin Texas. They have drunk the Koolaide and think everyone should be eating Spam :-)

What does Spam have to do with Social Media, Brains & Common Sense?

I am slowly learning about Social Media and how to use it. You know, as a retired school teacher this electronic age and some of these things just boggle my mind. Take Twitter for instance.

I confess, I am a brand new Twitterphile. It took me a while to comprehend and understand what Twitter IS and DOES. So this is what I figured out:

1- Twitter is great for EVERYONE because we all think that we are brilliant and it gives us the opportunity to share (read, Insinuate) our brilliance with others, even if they don't ask for our opinion.

2- Twitter seems to be reaching out to everyone who has ADD, ADHD and all the other "labels" that we, in the teaching profession give to those we don't understand or can't "reach" or whose minds are so far superior that they race ahead and are the definition and a marvel at multi-tasking although they cannot concentrate on any one thing at a time :-)

3- Twitter IS great because it actually gives us access to those who we would not be able to get close to, pick up a phone and call, or even begin to think that we could reach in more traditional ways, whilst giving us the "feeling" that we are "in relationship" with them. Just today, Lance Armstrong advises us that he is (at that very moment) speaking with Michael J. Fox on the phone! So, maybe we are using Twitter to become........................Voyeurs!


1,2, & 3 are in jest and I am, of course poking fun, however reading between the lines you will see that the stream of conscious nature of Twitter allows us to pick up some great information, have access to wonderful people who wouldn't have access to and DOES avail us the opportunity to put ourselves out there.

What about Facebook, MySpace, Ning and all the other Social Media Sites?

Since I am a Compassionate Marketer, I think I prefer this type of media in that they allow us to develop mini relationships with people. It allows up to click on their profile and read about them, get to know them, and even see if we are kindred spirits. If you are a marketer, it is essential that you be able to ascertain what a person's needs and goals are. Only then might you figure out if you can help them.

A successful business person KNOWS that

1- caring about others
2- knowing their goals and dreams
3- learning about their lives
4- learn what their motivation is
is the essential ingredient in success.

I believe these types of Social Media sites give you the ability to do just that IF you use it correctly.

I was enjoying my friend Lisa's Facebook page this morning and noted a young man who wrote a lengthy note and suggesting that she "download his free Ebook" to help her with her future. Of course, this young man did not take the time to learn about her at all. If he had, he would have realized that this accomplished woman has an incredible career and a professional in the industry for many decades. It became apparent that he didn't take the time to find out anything about her and assumed that she would be interested in his "free Ebook" because HE puts value on it, and HIS value is to use this ebook as a tool to hook unsuspecting people and "get them in his deal".


Let's all sit back and realize that not everyone is a Spam Addict.

Let's all learn some basic common sense when we meet others on any of the Social Media sites.

Let's be sure we take the time to get to know someone BEFORE we start "spamming" them.


What interests me most about Twitter and all the Social Media sites AND the Internet at large is that whatever you put out there IS OUT THERE FOREVER. Most people do not realize that.


Use your common sense. Use your brains. Think before you post!


May your day be a treasure bringing Increase and Plenty to your door.

Practicing Abundance, Prosperity & Kindness EVERY DAY,

RS
RandiSusan Mallory
Compassionate Marketing
512.472.2604 Country Code 001
SKYPE/Oovoo: rsmallory





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Monday, April 13, 2009

Patience, Perseverence & Belief

This past weekend brought Passover AND Easter. The Universe presented us with a spiritual buffet. Last night I tuned in to one of my all time favorite films........Charlton Heston, Yul Brenner, Edward G Robinson..........can you guess? The 10 Commandments.

I remember when I was a little girl and saw this grand film in the "new" Technicolor on a GIANT screen. I remember drooling over a handsome Moses (Charlton Heston) and am exotic and mysterious Pharaoh (Yul Brenner). Edward G Robinson who played characters in many "Gee" movies about gangsters in the 30' s & 40's (and was the pride of my grandparents who always thought of him as "the Jewish boy who made good) of course was yet again, another "bad guy" Hebrew turning against his people AND his G-d.

If you've seen this film a gazillion times like me, I hope you saw it again last night! If you've never seen it, please do yourself a favor and rent the DVD. The Technicolor is better than anything we have today (in my humble opinion) and the history lesson coupled with the dashing leading men of the day make for a wonderful few hours of ........entertainment?

Hmmmmmm, which brings me to why this post is titled, Belief, Patience, Perseverance.

In order for us to attain our goals, we know we must write them down. Even BEFORE we do that, however, we must BELIEVE that we are "good enough" to reach for them, and then indeed, attain them. Moses displays this belief from the very start of the "Saga" in the movie. Don't forget, the retelling of this story is factual. Moses was left in the reeds on a River as an infant to be claimed by The mother of Pharaoh. He was raised to ascend to that throne until "fate" redirects Moses as he discovers that he is indeed a Hebrew. Moses then realizes that his kindness for and towards the "slaves of the day" (The Hebrews) was not just an accident of character. As history unfolds, Moses in embraced by G-d to lead the Hebrew people out of Egypt to freedom.

His evil brother conspires with the sitting Pharaoh and exiles Moses out of the "court" and into the slave camps of the Hebrews where Moses learns about his "birth" people. His BELIEF embodies him and he then perseveres to "know" his G-d. The reward is that G-d chooses Moses to embark on a path of leadership that brings us the 10 Commandments and a deeper faith to all.

Once The Hebrews successfully crossed through the Sea (parted by G-d) to escape Egypt, they wandered for FORTY (40) years before coming to The Promised Land. Moses wrapped himself in his BELIEF as he persevered. Patience was never lost, even as the people may have become misguided, Moses maintained his sense of purpose and belief through those forty years of trials and tribulations.

For those who don't know why The Hebrews wandered for 40 years, it was because G-d wanted to make sure that all those who originally left Egypt were dead. The Promised land was to be for those who were actually born in the travail and journey of those 40 years. It was THEY who embodied the belief, perseverance and patience, and "the knowing" that they would achieve their goals. Moses himself was not allowed to enter the new land. Joshua lead the people into the land.

What can we learn from all this? If you are a non believer there is still a valuable lesson in the history of the "story".

~~~~Moses embraced his belief and HELD on to it for FORTY YEARS

~~~~He persevered through obstacles, travails, food shortages, thirst, enemies and those who were naysayers not wanting him to succeed.

~~~~His faith, kindness, devotion and caring for others was embodied in his BELIEF in his Journey and its Reward.

Moses knew that he would not be able to enter "The Promised Land". Yet he continued his journey because it brought reward to others. HIS reward was in leading helping others :-)

Compassionate Marketers know that we must always think of others and help them define and reach toward their goals in order for us to reach ours. We must embrace our own belief in ourselves and our worthiness. We must take one step at a time and move forward day by day and have the patience and understanding that we WILL be moving forward. We must always, in the face of adversity (or those naysayers in our lives) persevere in order to attain our goals.

For a few hours last night I became that little girl again, watching Moses speak with G-d, battling the Egyptians, and leading my people out of Egypt.

For a few hours last night I sat in front of my 221 inch tv screen but magically my mind was transposing the images to that Jumbo tron screen of my youth.

For a few hours last night I felt myself BECOMING my beliefs, REGAINING my Faith and perseverance, and knowing that I must take one step at a time, each and every day to attain my goals.

This morning I am aglow with a RENEWED sense of faith (in my G-d, The Universe and myself)
and KNOW that I already am everything I want to be so I am putting one foot in front of the other, taking steps every day on my journey and KNOW that I will attain my goals.

What about you?

May your day be a treasure bringing Increase and Plenty to your door.

Practicing Abundance, Prosperity & Kindness EVERY DAY,


RS
RandiSusan Mallory
Compassionate Marketing
512.472.2604 Country Code 001SKYPE or Oovoo: rsmallory



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Saturday, March 7, 2009

What are you Attracting and Why?


I ran across a wonderful little tale that reminded me of how we direct The Law of Attraction in our own lives. The Law of Attraction exists as a gift or tool to help us in attaining our desires by either putting us in a place, situation or instance where what we need, who we need to meet, or who they know, to attain our goals & desires might be the catalyst for us to reach them.

It is up to each of us to define and know what our goals are. Remember, writing down our goals and visiting them often allows us to take ownership of them and invites The Law OfAttraction in to our lives.

This little tale (from the Kabbalah newsletter) exemplifies how low or small expectations rebuke The Law of Attraction into our Lives. The Universe means for us to be Abundant, Prosperous and Joyful.


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"It often amazes me how small we think. The universe is constantly presenting us with a smorgasbord of lasting fulfillment, yet we tend to settle for scraps. There is a story of a man who goes fishing. After he catches the fish, he measures it up against a ruler and if it's bigger than the ruler, he throw it back. By the end of the day he has thrown back quite a few, and a fellow fisherman asks him why. He explains, "The pot I use to cook the fish is only 12 inches wide. I have no use for the bigger fish."
Life wants to give us everything, but, when we're stuck with our small desires, it's like we are throwing it away.Today, rethink what it is you want out of life. Expand your desires. Imagine that you can do or have anything and allow yourself the courage to go for it."

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My friends, we must

1- define & set our goals

2- believe in ourselves

3- believe that we are Worthy

4- understand The Laws of The Universe (Intention, Attraction, Reciprocity)

5- TAKE ACTION


If you are stuck or need assistance in working towards your goal, email or call for an appointment. I would be gratified to assist you in your journey :-)


May your day be a treasure bringing Increase and Plenty to your door.


Practicing Abundance, Prosperity & Kindness EVERY DAY,


RS
RandiSusan Mallory
Compassionate Marketing
512.472.2604 Country Code 001 or 1.800.372.2319
SKYPE or Oovoo: rsmallory


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Tuesday, March 3, 2009

Beginning of a new Era





Thank you dear readership, for following Compassionate Marketing.


The hiatus is over!


Compassionate Marketing will be offering new training articles shortly.


As always, I wish you abundance, prosperity and laughter.


RS

RandiSusan Mallory
Compassionate Marketing
512.472.2604 Country Code 001
SKYPE or Oovoo: rsmallory

Thursday, December 25, 2008

Merry Christmas & Happy Hanukkah


Compassionate Marketing


Warm wishes for a Blessed and Joyous Christmas and Chanukah

and a Prosperous and Healthy 2009


May your days be a treasure bringing Increase and Plenty to your door.

RS
RandiSusan Mallory

Friday, December 12, 2008

Do Women Do it Better?

Women don't have to PRACTICE, they DO! Okay gents, move over :-) Did you know................

that it was women in the Biblical Days that

1- taught values, ethics, morals and culture
2- kept the family together
3- developed AND Grew the relationships

Fast forward to 2008 and it is not surprising that women are fast taking over the Network Marketing Industry simply because they do not have to "work" at the above mentioned qualities and attributes.

Women are Natural Networkers.

I grew up in the 50's and 60's when women were still "homemakers" and did not work outside the home. Times changed gradually and women all over the Nation suddenly found themselves "without skills" to obtain traditional jobs. Wooohooooo, what a stroke of luck!

Women not only

1- taught values, ethics, morals and culture
2- kept the family together
3- developed AND Grew the relationships but they also were fabulous accountants, social directors, nutritionists, executive dispatchers and the list goes on.


Running a home and a family required (and STILL requires) a laundry list of skills that women developed, never realizing these skills were exceptionally marketable in "the business world".

Women are natural networkers! They have LISTENING skills and do so with their HEART as well as with their ears; they develop relationships with people based on the other persons needs, NOT their own. Women are used to GIVING, whether it be to a spouse, children, The PTA, etc. It is no wonder that our beloved industry is now replete with fabulous and successful women who have "come in to their own, REALIZE and TAKE OWNERSHIP of their skills, and reach out to others to nurture them.


How do you define your credentials?

1- Define and Draft a list of YOUR TALENTS and SPECIAL QUALITIES
2- Look at your home life, your experiences, as well as your "J.O.B."
3- Be willing to ACCEPT that you have natural talents
4- SHARE those talents with others
5- Repeat #1 often

Need affirmation of your skills and talents? Check with your Church/Synagogue associates and organizations, PTA, Community Groups, Social Groups, etc.

Write down all the things you do on a daily basis to keep your household running.

Repeat #1 often

May your day be a treasure bringing Increase and Plenty to your door.


Practicing Abundance, Prosperity & Kindness EVERY DAY,

RS

RandiSusan Mallory
Compassionate Marketing
512.472.2604
Country Code 001
SKYPE or Oovoo: rsmallory

BE a Mentor with A Servant's Heart


You may find this article in the November issue of www.TheNetworkMarketingMagazine.com


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Tuesday, November 11, 2008

What if You REALLY ARE What you THINK you are?




The power is WITHIN you. Many of us are looking elsewhere for the "magic", lament that others "always have the luck" or feel that we "will never be able to achieve" what others have.


Simply put, our hearts desire is empowered and grows when we THINK and ENVISION what we want, in actually picture format. The magic? Believing that we WILL attain our desire, HOLDING ON to that picture in our heart AND brain and ALLOWING the Universe to help orchestrate the outcome. We must never forget that we are a Magnate that attracts what we get, so keeping focused, "right thinking" and consistently HOLDING ON to that picture creates positive energy.


To learn more about how YOU hold the power to create your own life, paint your own landscape, I will gift you TNT The Power Within You by Claude Bristol, with my love. What you will read in the pages of this book WILL change your life IF you have the desire to learn from them and ACT on them.

Claim your copy of TNT by Sending an email to AtTheTop@Gmail.com
Be sure and put "TNT" in the Subject line and include your full name, email address and telephone number in the body of the email. In addition, if you would like a one on one consultation, please let me know the best time to contact you to set up a complementary 45 minute call.


I wish you a lifetime of whatever it is that you PICTURE for yourself.


May your day be a treasure bringing Increase and Plenty to your
door.

Practicing Abundance, Prosperity & Kindness EVERY DAY,

RS
RandiSusan Mallory
Compassionate Marketing
512.472.2604 Country Code 001
SKYPE or Oovoo: rsmallory

BE a Mentor with A Servant's Heart


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Wednesday, October 8, 2008

You ARE whatever you THINK you are!

Meet Nora the cat. She is a world class pianist and lives with her Mom and Dad who are a Piano Teacher and Artist respectively. Nora PRACTICES every day to hone her skills. What about you? Remember, you already are everything you want to be. Just Take Action (practice) and The Slight Edge will work for you. ...... it worked for Nora :-)


Monday, September 29, 2008

Are you a Network Marketing Elephant?



Are you a Network Marketing Elephant?

Remember going to the circus as a little kid? Think back and you will remember seeing how the animal handlers keep the elephants at bay. They used conditioning to get the elephants to do (or not do) what they wanted them to do!

The elephant had a rope tied around its leg even as a little baby & then the rope was tied to a stake that was driven into the ground. The elephant could not move. Even as the elephant grew and matured, its two tons of muscle and force REMAINED tied down by a tiny rope and stake.

WHY? What's their secret?

The handlers trained the elephant from birth to stay put using the rope. That’s called Conditioned Consciousness. Over time, the beautiful beast becomes convinced it can't pull out the stake. And because it's convinced it can't, it can't!

We do the same thing.

We convince ourselves we cannot earn a million dollars a year, so we don't. Not only that, the actions we don't take preclude us from being in a position or circumstance to earn a million dollars a year or meet our goals.

We are convinced we will never meet the right prospects. Therefore, the actions we don't take preclude us from ever meeting or attracting the right prospects.

Or, we want to grow our team and better our relationships with our teammates. We have a good relationship but we want to take it to the next level. But we can't see (envision) that next level is right there waiting for us, and so we don't take the right steps to get to that next level.


We are not using visualization or belief! We are stuck because of the rope tied around our ankle. It is called….. self fulfilling prophesy.

Tug just a little and you will snap the rope, begin to visualize. EXPECT success. The Secret is to TAKE ACTION, my friends.

As you may know, Libra is the beginning of the New Year. The holiday of Rosh Hashanah is the re-creation of the world – our world. We are given a blank slate. Therefore, now is the ideal time to look at your conditioning and reprogram our thoughts that EVERYTHING IS POSSIBLE.

Love, healing, well-being, prosperity, simple happiness, confidence, success, - what is it you want?

You ALREADY ARE everything you want to be; just take action and the Laws of Intention and Attraction will be there for you! If you work 99% on your consciousness, you'll notice that your 1% (physical circumstances) will change and grow. Your consciousness will invoke The Law of Intention and she enlist her sister, The Law of Attraction to help.

What is it you are convinced you can't achieve?
You CAN achieve your hearts desire by CHANGING the way you think AND taking action immediately :-)

You will be on your way to an incredible year, and life!

Go for YOUR personal best :-) It takes perseverance and KNOWING that you will attain your goals and dreams! Remember, you ALREADY ARE everything you want to be; just take action and the Laws of Intention and Attraction will be there for you! Simply tug on that little rope and free yourself from your conditioning !


Practicing Abundance, Prosperity & Kindness EVERY DAY,

RS Mallory
Compassionate Marketing
512.472.2604 Country Code 001
SKYPE or Oovoo: rsmallory
BE a Mentor with a Servant’s Heart

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Saturday, September 6, 2008

Network Marketing and YOUR Goals


Remember this is YOUR journey; one that you should enjoy as you learn, grow and share... these tips will help you do just that.

Network Marketing can help us achieve our individual goals more than any other business paradigm. Once we have selected our vehicle (company) the important thing is to understand that we need to develop skills. What’s that?

In actuality, the optimum journey would be to learn and develop our skills FIRST and then learn how to evaluate and select an opportunity and company.So now that your passion has been ignited and you have your goals, what do you do?

1- Seek guidance from your sponsor or someone in your upline that is willing to give you a helping hand and put you on your journey towards success.

2- Understand and practice The Slight Edge (Jeff Olson). Do not be impatient and know that each baby step you take and performing those steps consistently and on a daily basis will be the most rewarding thing you can do.

3- Teaching others to do the same thing will enhance your ability to grow a fruitful and successful organization. This is Duplication at it's finest!


Remember that sponsor or upline that may be willing to help and guide you? Be sure that you find out WHAT systems they use and HOW to use them. Do not attempt to reinvent the wheel, my friend. It doesn’t matter whether or not you are new to network marketing or you have been in network marketing for 20 years. Each team has a system that they use. In most cases, the system will increase your ability to grow your business.

Here are a few tips:


1-Be prepared to WORK and decide how many hours you are willing to devote to your business.

2- Read The Slight Edge (Jeff Olson) and understand that building your business is a journey and reliant on your doing a few simple things over a long period of time, over and over again on a consistent basis (and teaching others to do the same thing)

3- Do not freeze. Remember, nobody knows what you DON’T know or what you might leave out in a presentation. Most people are NOT The Amazing Kreskin and cannot read your mind! Relax, learn on the job and enjoy!

4- Seek council and feedback from your sponsor, upline or mentor. Remember to invite constructive criticism in order to hone your skills.

5- Continue to attain your (written) goals of contacting/meeting/approaching people on a daily basis.

6- Be sure you have your written goals in a place that you can review them OFTEN.


Knowing that you are on a daily journey will reinforce your ability to stick to your plan and continue on a daily basis.

Remember this is YOUR journey; one that you should enjoy as you learn, grow and share!

Helping other people focus and teaching them how to grow is the real payoff in Network Marketing!


May your day be a treasure bringing Increase and Plenty to your door.

Practicing Abundance, Prosperity & Kindness EVERY DAY,

RS
RandiSusan Mallory
Compassionate Marketing
512.472.2604 Country Code 001
SKYPE or Oovoo: rsmallory

BE a Mentor with A Servant's Heart

Copyright ©2008 RS Mallory/Compassionate Marketing. All Rights Reserved. May be used with Proper Attribution

Tuesday, August 19, 2008

How to attain your Personal Best


Hello my friends,

"The starting point of all achievement is desire. Keep this constantly in mind. Weak desire brings weak results, just as a small amount of fire makes a small amount of heat." Napoleon Hill


Napoleon Hill finally published Think and Grow Rich in the 1930's. It took him TEN YEARS of interviewing people before he sat down to write his book!

He had a goal, wrote it down and then TOOK ACTION, 10 years of action!

Success usually does not take that long. So what do you do first?

1- Define your goal(s)

2- Write them down

3- Take Action Every Day

4- KNOW that you will attain your goal. BELEIVE in yourself


Do something daily that will move you forward. This action may not get you to your end goal, however, like Napoleon Hill, it will progressively move you forward, each and every day :-)

Napoleon Hill could not sit down and write a book in 1 day or even a week or a month.

He started by taking action, interviewing people on a consistent basis, honing his own interviewing skills as he talked with each person.

Remember the old adage from Mom? I bet it is rattling around your brain someplace! I can see myself at the Piano as a little girl hearing my Mom say it!

Ask Michael Phelps the Champion Olympian Swimmer....... he knows the adage too:

"Practice makes perfect".

To be perfect, one must practice. That requires action each and every day!

Here's a secret: you do NOT have to be perfect (unless you are Michael Phelps) to attain your goal as long as you believe in yourself and take (the correct) actions each and every day.


Go for the Gold! You can do it AND you deserve it!


May your day be a treasure bringing Increase and Plenty to your door.


Practicing Abundance, Prosperity & Kindness EVERY DAY,

RS
RandiSusan Mallory
Compassionate Marketing
512.472.2604 Country Code 001
SKYPE or Oovoo: rsmallory

BE a Mentor with A Servant's Heart


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Tuesday, August 5, 2008

Perception, Gratitude and Dancing in the Rain :-)


Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass; it’s about learning to dance in the rain.

Author Unknown


Wow! How many of us miss all the good stuff that COULD BE because we just don’t know how to appreciate and live in Gratitude?

Yesterday I woke up and on my way to the stairway I found my English Siamese Pussy Cat, Sweet Pea who had decided to stretch out and take a nap, right at the foot of the stairs. Sweet Pea is the same color as my carpet and I didn’t see her! Ooops! I suddenly felt her fur on the bottom of my foot as a quickly withdrew it and broke my toe in the misstep! Ouch

Living in Gratitude means finding the good or positive things in an event or situation.

If I had stepped on Sweet Pea she could have been critically hurt. Splat! I could have lost My balance and tumbled down the stairwell and broken an arm, leg or worse!

Yesterday was a wonderful day! I did not squish the cat, nor did I break a leg! I am sporting a rainbow toe that is
the most beautiful color of raspberry magenta I’ve seen in years. It is a great conversation piece……….. especially for me, a Network Marketer.

Now I am not suggesting that you go and break a toe to start conversations J And, beware of kitties lazing underfoot. The lesson is, however, that I am ever grateful for NOT hurting myself and for my colorful toe which introduced me to several wonderful People yesterday!

Living in Gratitude means perceiving or seeing things differently!

13 years ago I met an old friend, her daughter and husband in New Orleans. I had just moved to Texas from New Jersey, where my friends were still living and it was a reunion of sorts. Two wonderful things happened on that trip!

I wore a lovely summer straw hat on the plane and it seems, other people thought so too as it became a conversation piece allowing me to meet a few great folks, several of whom are STILL my friends. But, when my friends met me at the airport, my dear friend exclaimed, “Oh, it’s just like you to wear a hat and draw attention to yourself”. Negative energy and perception go hand and hand, my friends.

Be aware, be awake and always listen to the Universe!

The second lesson appeared as we were on Bourbon Street going through the Art Galleries and Shops. Suddenly the skies opened up and there was a DELUGE of rain. It rained in torrents for about 15 minutes greeting the already sultry, steamy atmosphere with more of the same.

Make yummy Lemonade, or is this a lesson on Perception?

My friend, bless her, was “upset” about the rain and exclaimed that it was ruining HER day.
Me? I put my straw hat on her husband’s head for safe keeping, ripped off my sandals, lifted my skirts and ran out into the gutters splashing into the torrent of water rushing down the street.

A funny thing happened
in that that moment. People started emerging out of the shops. After watching me for a minute or two, some of them actually joined me in a “gutter splash”, giggling and laughing to THEIR hearts content! LITERALLY, we were dancing in the rain! I even lifted my head and opened my mouth to TASTE the rain!

When was the last time you tasted the rain?


My friends, “Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass; It's about learning to dance in the rain.” **

Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass; it’s about what you do DURING the
Storm that counts!

Remember, you ALREADY ARE everything you want to be, just Take Action and invoke the Law of Intention and her sister, The Law of Attraction will bring you where you want to be!

Go ahead, DANCE in the rain and check this short video out to put a smile on your face!

Thanks to my friend Donna Jean from
Thoughts for the Day for sending this poignant reminder to us all!


May your day be a treasure bringing Increase and Plenty to your door.

Practicing Abundance, Prosperity & Kindness EVERY DAY,

RS
RandiSusan Mallory
Compassionate Marketing
512.472.2604 Country Code 001
SKYPE or Oovoo: rsmallory

BE a Mentor with A Servant's Heart


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Thursday, July 10, 2008

Business Cards To Help 10 Year Old Cancer Patient

Business Cards To Help 10 Year Old Cancer Patient!

Brandon Rayner is 10 years old and fighting Leukemia. He not only wants to beat his disease but he also wants to break the World Record for a business card collection!

Help Brandon break the Worlds Record! Send your Business card!

Please take a Compassionate Marketing Moment and put your card and the cards of your business partners in an envelope and mail them by August 15th to the address below.

Brandon is NOT asking for money, just a little help to have 2 dreams come true!

Pretty awesome for a 10 year old!

He also would love for you to be checked as a bone marrow donor to help find a match not only for him but the thousands of others that suffer with Leukemia.

Lets see how many parts of not only the US but, all over the world will help Brandon reach his goal.

This cause is a wonderful way to practice being a Compassionate Marketer and flex your Viral Marketing arm! Let's show Brandon what it is all about! Get your online friends and organizations to send in their business cards! Better yet – get them to go and be checked as a bone marrow donor on their way to the post office!

If you'd like to add to Brandon's business card collection you can send your card by August 15, 2008 to:

Sunrise Children's Hospital, Pediatric Oncology
3186 S. Maryland Parkway
Las Vegas, NV 89109
Attention: Brandon Rayner

Here is the link to KVBC Channel 3 here in Las Vegas that just aired the story.
Business Card and Bone Marrow Drive

Ok, I am excited to see what Sunrise Hospital does when all of you start sending in those cards!!

Just think of the smile Brandon will have when he starts getting cards from all over the world!

Why not have your children make a picture or card to add in the envelope with your Business Card?

National Bone Marrow Donor Program

Have a Compassionate Marketing Day and count YOUR Blessings!

May your day be a treasure bringing Increase and Plenty to your door.

Practicing Abundance, Prosperity & Kindness EVERY DAY,
RS
RandiSusan Mallory
Compassionate Marketing
512.472.2604 Country Code 001
SKYPE or Oovoo: rsmallory

BE a Mentor with A Servant's Heart


Copyright ©2008 RS Mallory/Compassionate Marketing. All Rights Reserved. May be used with Proper Attribution

Tuesday, July 1, 2008

July 4th and YOUR Independence










The 4th of July was known as Independence Day!


Happy July 1st my friends!

The events in our great history leading up to The Fourth of July insured that we all might pursue our freedom, greatness and success each as we choose.

Mac Anderson who writes Simple Truths and brings us lovely inspiring videos writes today about personal greatness and success.

"Dr. Martin Luther King said, “Everyone has the power of greatness. Not for fame but greatness. Because greatness is determined by service.”

Success is a very personal thing, but I think most people would agree that true success is about being fulfilled in LIFE. And, I feel there would be no greater feeling to look back toward the end of your life with a “smile in yourheart” knowing that
you made a positive difference in the lives of others."

Mac inspired a book which talks about the importance of (hand) writing notes to people because, in this electronic age of email and unlimited phone service, we forget the Joy and Gratitude that a hand written note brings to the recipient. It does not matter what you write; the psycho-emotional message is loud and clear and is that you CARED enough about the person to take a moment to express your gratitude to them, in written form.

Your penned note will be the exception in their mailbox, and one that will not only bring a smile to the recipient, it will give them a feeling of "being thought of" and gratitude that is becoming so illusive these days!

Think back to when you were a kid and Grandma sent you a Birthday Card IN THE MAIL. It mattered note what she wrote or what the card said! What mattered was that she thought enough to send it to you and remembered yourbirthday! Give your customers the gift of Caring. It will come back to you in ways that you could never imagine!


Compassionate Marketing teaches relationship and also teaches that we GIVE a little bit of ourselves when we and scribe notes to our customers and new affiliates. Mac and I are on the same page; what about you?

Be sure to continue to send out thank you notes to your customers. Keep your personal file on them and send birthday, anniversary and no occasion notes too. Your customers will enjoy the notes and KNOW that you appreciate THEM! This is a simple formula for retention, which as we know, pays handsomely.
Along the way you will develop many warm & rewarding relationships.

During this week leading up to our "Independence Day", please remember the events in our great history leading up to The Fourth of July insured that we all might pursue our freedom, greatness and success each as we choose.
What do you choose?


May your day be a treasure bringing Increase and Plenty to your door.

Practicing Abundance, Prosperity & Kindness EVERY DAY,

RS
RandiSusan Mallory
Compassionate Marketing
512.472.2604 Country Code 001SKYPE or Oovoo: rsmallory

BE a Mentor with A Servant's Heart

Tuesday, May 20, 2008

Tales from Town Lake: Strange Bedfellows & a Tornado


Taking to Town Lake running trail after the Austin Tornado was gratifying :-) All the 100 year old trees managed to Survive the winds, softball size hail and torrents of rain. Most relented and gave up their weak branches, receiving a "mental cleanse" from Mother Nature.

A Mental Cleanse? Yes! The weak branches were sucking life out of the trees, hanging on for dear life and causing the tree trunk and healthy branches to suffer and wan. Such it is with those of us who cling on to the dead wood in our mind; that which zaps our energies, causes us self doubt and stands in the way of our Success, Joys and Laughter.


A destructive tornado is not necessary for you to clean up your mind. There are some very specific steps you can take that will be positive;


1- Agree with yourself that you need to do some "personal work" to eliminate those ghosties and dead wood
2- Create a Goal to take steps to RESOLVE and LET GO those issues


What to do First?


1- Look at yourself in the mirror and wrap your arms around yourself and have a big hug.

Make sure you tell yourself that "you love you". This is not easy to do and you may have to start with just "liking yourself"!

2- Embark on a DAILY personal growth program (reading, writing, Cd's, tapes, DVDs) 15 minutes IN THE MORNING and then 30-45 minutes before you go to bed.

~~~Starting your day with positive action creates the footprint of your day.

~~~Ending your day with positive thoughts sets your mind to thinking and working through POSITIVE things.


3- Do not Judge yourself. Be KIND to yourself. Experience Joy, laughter and gratitude each and every day. Create a "Blessing Box" and put little notes in it daily. At the end of the day open it up and read your Blessings for the day.

What goes in your blessing box? Here's what is in mine for today so far;

~~~Thank you for raising the water in Town Lake so that the fishes have ample room to swim. Their beauty and frolicking is amazing and joyful!

~~~Thank you for my ability to complete 5.5k run today

~~~Thank you for the opportunity to behold the ducks who survived the tornado. ( White Duck lost her mate and a Mallard Duck adopted her. Since ducks mate for life, it was quite a beautiful thing to see and experience.

Relationships are amazing! Strange Bedfellows CAN create beautiful and lasting bonds!

~~~I am gratified and thankful to be able to offer $160 in free product to New Affiliates this week. (Please contact me for more information)


4. Set your goals and take action daily. Use The Slight Edge and understand that it will work for you IF you do not quite. Take baby steps toward your goals, each and every day.

5. Remember that only you control the thoughts in your mind. You can Vanquish the negative thoughts if you are aware of them and remember that you are in control of who visits your mind. It's valuable real estate. Take charge of who you let in!

6. Practice Abundance, Prosperity and Kindness towards YOURSELF, each and every day!

7. Remember, you ALREADY ARE who you think you are; just take action to bring it to you!


May your day be a treasure bringing Increase and Plenty to your door.

Practicing Abundance, Prosperity & Kindness EVERY DAY,

RS
RandiSusan Mallory
http://compassionatemarketing.com/
512.472.2604 Country Code 001
SKYPE: rsmallory

BE a Mentor with A Servant's Heart


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Saturday, May 10, 2008

What does Mother's Day have to do with Compassionate Marketing?



Mother's Day approaches and millions upon millions of women will be honored. But why? and WHY just women? I am mindful that, throughout history, it was (and is) Strong and Compassionate women (and men) who become the wind beneath our wings.

This celebration is for those who make a difference in our lives.


This is for those whose guidance and love,

patience and compassion,

laughter and joy,

ethics and behaviors

act as a guidepost to us all, and help us grow to be Giving, Compassionate beings who know that the Gift of life is about helping others.


Become a touchstone

Be a Guidepost

Be loving and kind

Listen with an open heart

KNOW that you are blessed

Know that sometimes it's just about GIVING or RECEIVING a (physical, emotional or spiritual) hug


Thank you for being part of my life! The joy of Compassionate Marketing is that is brings those Stellar folks who are like minded and caring, together.


Enjoy your special day, give YOURSELF a hug and I hope you enjoy this card.


May your day be a treasure bringing Increase and Plenty to your door.

Practicing Abundance, Prosperity & Kindness EVERY DAY,

RS
RandiSusan Mallory
Compassionate Marketing
512.472.2604 Country Code 001
SKYPE or Oovoo: rsmallory

BE a Mentor with A Servant's Heart


Copyright ©2008 RS Mallory/Compassionate Marketing. All Rights Reserved. May be used with Proper Attribution